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You Shouldn't be Dating by Haters-Gonna-Hate-Me You Shouldn't be Dating by Haters-Gonna-Hate-Me
9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14 is too young to be dating.

Why? Because you're not mature enough. I think the world has enough pregnant 12 and 13 year olds, thank you. Hell, I would even say that most high school students aren't mature enough to really date, but, at least in high school you are more mature than a little sevvie. Also, dating in high school is what gets you prepared for real life because that's what you're going to be thrust into before you know it.
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:iconpraetoric:
PRAETORIC Featured By Owner 1 day ago
i didn't date till 17, and all through middle school everyones like "check out my boyfriend!" "er ma gerd look at my boyfriend!" and i always sat there and said "yeah, i'll owe 20 bucks if you two last 3 months, and aren't you like too young to date?" i got lots of money from betting on relationships that year! XD
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Brightclaws Featured By Owner 3 days ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I think people shouldn't date until like 17 years old
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MitziiztiM Featured By Owner 5 days ago  New Deviant Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Agreed! :D

In my olds school 10, 11 and 12 were dating eachother. I even saw two of them kiss. In front of an entire group of kids! (It was at the park at my estate, They were in the feild thing and I was at the gate not to far from them, I went home after that, 2 years has passed, even now they don't know I was there.) They think that dating someone, no are brainwashed by society into thinking that dating is what makes you "grown up" (facepalm, no you retards. It's maturity that makes you grown up. It's not puberty, not dating, not losing your virginity, not getting pregnant, maturity!!)

It just pissed me off. I'm honestly not looking forward to the next generation.
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EnglishFlier Featured By Owner Aug 22, 2015  New Deviant Hobbyist Digital Artist
I hate these kind of people. They assume that dating = sex
I first had a boyfriend when I was in 6th grade, last year. It was bad c:
But that's not my point, (he was just an a-hole) dating at 10 - whatever is fine in my opinion.
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:iconthetsundereotaku:
TheTsundereOtaku Featured By Owner Aug 16, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
13 and 14 year olds can date :/
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:iconeythskie:
Eythskie Featured By Owner Aug 17, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
It all depends on maturity, some 13 year olds are very mature but some have maturity of a spoiled rotten 8 year old.
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:iconthetsundereotaku:
TheTsundereOtaku Featured By Owner Aug 17, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yeah, that is definitely true. 
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:iconlavaman32:
LavaMan32 Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
Even though I'm 16 I sorta wanna be careful around girls. My sister got pregnant when she was 16 so you could say that's what fueled my cautiousness. 
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xXStar-LightsXx Featured By Owner Aug 12, 2015  Student Digital Artist
I think 13-14 years old can date. 
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An0nymousFlow3rs Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2015  Student General Artist
When I was in elementary school, a girl lied saying she got pregnant just to look cool.
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:iconvincebae:
Vincebae Featured By Owner Jul 31, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
Yes! I have turned 15 and have escaped this stamps clutches! 
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tultsi93 Featured By Owner Edited Jul 21, 2015  Hobbyist Artist
Excuse me, but how 12-years-old is "too young" to date? I had my first boyfriend when I was 12, and I'm still a virgin. You don't need sex to be happy.
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:iconkomatsuzaki-xingqi:
Komatsuzaki-Xingqi Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
You're not mature enough for it, obviously.
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:icontultsi93:
tultsi93 Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2015  Hobbyist Artist
And I've desided I don't want it. It's so scary. It contains too many risks.
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EverLastingLuv Featured By Owner Jul 17, 2015  Hobbyist Photographer
12 and under, I agree. However, 13 years old is fine since they're teens.
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Komatsuzaki-Xingqi Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
"Teens" is just a category we made up to simply things. 13-year-olds are still waaaay too immature. XD
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EverLastingLuv Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2015  Hobbyist Photographer
Yeah I get it. I'm on the fence about it. I think for me it depends. For example, if the boy/girl is really smart and capable of making the right decisions at 13 then I would allow it. Biased I know, but whatevs.
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:iconkittyvonmeowlol:
kittyvonmeowlol Featured By Owner Jul 10, 2015  New Deviant Hobbyist Interface Designer
 Disagreed, haters gonna hate me! Kids like at 9 and 10 should be able t explore the date world!! You don't even know what grade dating started at MY school... 1st GRADE.
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:iconimmature-pineapple:
immature-pineapple Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2015  New Deviant Hobbyist Digital Artist
What in the living fuck did your parents tell you? Your parents are fucked up.
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:iconkittyvonmeowlol:
kittyvonmeowlol Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2015  New Deviant Hobbyist Interface Designer
they told me nothing! and no, my parents aren't fucked up, YOU ARE! 
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:iconimmature-pineapple:
immature-pineapple Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2015  New Deviant Hobbyist Digital Artist
So your parents don't care you are dating at 10 years old? I'm not as fucked up as to tell my kids in the future dating @ ten years old is okay.
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:iconkittyvonmeowlol:
kittyvonmeowlol Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2015  New Deviant Hobbyist Interface Designer
please, i am trying as hard as i can to calm down. so please... just stop. ;-; i have already had my emotional moment today, ok?
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:iconimmature-pineapple:
immature-pineapple Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2015  New Deviant Hobbyist Digital Artist
Lol why are you so sad
this is the internet please calm down
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:iconkittyvonmeowlol:
kittyvonmeowlol Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2015  New Deviant Hobbyist Interface Designer
well i have been cyber bullied too many times in my life, and its not fun! and you calling my parents that and arguing, im surprised i wasn't cussing left and right.
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immature-pineapple Featured By Owner Aug 6, 2015  New Deviant Hobbyist Digital Artist
Cyberbullying is a fake word. It's not real nor will it ever be.
Your parents need to be more aware of what you are doing online AND offline. You should not be swearing at your age. Thanks.
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:iconkittyvonmeowlol:
kittyvonmeowlol Featured By Owner Jul 10, 2015  New Deviant Hobbyist Interface Designer
Is not! XD
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:iconkittensneezikuns:
KittenSneezikuns Featured By Owner Jun 30, 2015  Student Digital Artist
Uhrm, I can sort of see where this is coming from but it's not right. Age has nothing to do with maturity, some young people have actually matured faster and know how to handle a relationship. And those same people also are smart enough not to get pregnant. I think a better stamp would be 9-14 year olds shouldn't be getting SERIOUS into dating, but they do have the right to test the waters and see what they like so they'll be ready to handle one in the future. It's a vast generalization that young teens can't handle relationships and get pregnant, and for some that is the case, but you shouldn't just automatically shut someone down when they say they're 14 and are in a relationship unless you think they're not safe when dating the person or that they can't handle it yet. Age has nothing to do with if you're ready for a relationship, age DOES however determine if you're ready for a serious one. Some aspects of maturity may come with age, but I have met 12 year olds that knew what they're talking about and are very mature when it comes to romantic deals. So please, don't speak for the kids like you know what's best, because you obviously don't.
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:iconkittyvonmeowlol:
kittyvonmeowlol Featured By Owner Jul 10, 2015  New Deviant Hobbyist Interface Designer
I agree.
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:iconstrawberryvanilla14:
StrawberryVanilla14 Featured By Owner Jun 30, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Agreed 

also nice profile pic you got there 0v0 
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:iconkittensneezikuns:
KittenSneezikuns Featured By Owner Jun 30, 2015  Student Digital Artist
Ah, thank you ; v ;
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VonRabenherz Featured By Owner Jun 19, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Well, I think 14 is fine, really. I don't see the connection to underage pregnancy, really.
The rate is a lot lower in my country, yet we aren't nearly as paranoid about dating and sex as americans. Kids dating at 14 or younger are not really anythign special here.
The difference is that we have mandatory sex ed in school starting in 5th grade. It really helps when kids know the risks, instead of trying to shelter them paranoidly, which won't work anyway.
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MoondreamerLBP Featured By Owner Jun 16, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I'm 15 and I'm not dating anyone because I think I'm too young. Many of my friends had boyfriends when they were younger than me (my best friend had her first when she was 11), but I don't want to date anyone yet.
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sparkles2003 Featured By Owner Jun 13, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Im 14 and have a bf but im almost 15 so yerpy derpy
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SpyroKazooieConker Featured By Owner Jun 10, 2015
@ all the kids being like "im in 9th grade i can smoke weed and have sex and do whatever i want uwu":

i "dated" someone when i was 14 and i was waaaay too immature, even at my age. it was a fucking disaster when they broke up with me. i know everyone is different but still. the people who've had terrible experiences dating when they're young don't want others to experience the same shit they have. especially when a teen's partner is much older than them which sadly i see way too much, especially online.
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gam-nep Featured By Owner Jun 13, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
this ^
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Sekhmet-Ra-Ptah Featured By Owner May 31, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
so we can't date till we're 99
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DrunkAssassin Featured By Owner May 30, 2015
im dating and im 14, a girlfriend for nearly a year

i guess it does kinda depend on how the child is acting
but yeah
i do understand these ages are really quite young to date...
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nati11184 Featured By Owner Jun 10, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
fOUND YOU I WAS GOING TO TAG YOU HERE HOLY SHIT

you forgot to mention your gf is 17 :^)

whispers
chi l d
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:iconreitanna-seishin:
Reitanna-Seishin Featured By Owner May 26, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
since when does dating mean the same thing as sex?
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:iconkamithegodwolf:
KamitheGodwolf Featured By Owner May 16, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Not all couples get shmexual. 
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:iconfizzymoth:
fizzymoth Featured By Owner May 14, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I've been dating my boyfriend since I was 13 and now I'm 17.
Ehh. ^.^
So I'm sure there's exceptions. Hey, that's another stereotype: not all young children are stupid. d:
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Rose-Dynamic Featured By Owner May 14, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
is dating a cartoon ok at these ages because that's what I'm doing right now
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:iconvonrabenherz:
VonRabenherz Featured By Owner Jun 19, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
You cannot date a cartoon.
What the actual fuck?
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:iconrose-dynamic:
Rose-Dynamic Featured By Owner Jun 19, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
r00d
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:iconvonrabenherz:
VonRabenherz Featured By Owner Jun 19, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
It's not like I care ...
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:iconrose-dynamic:
Rose-Dynamic Featured By Owner Jun 19, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Don't be rude : P
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:iconvonrabenherz:
VonRabenherz Featured By Owner Jun 20, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm not. I'm merely being sensible.
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:iconrose-dynamic:
Rose-Dynamic Featured By Owner Jun 20, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Actually, not really. I also checked your dA page, and you're very rude to religious people too.

I'm dating a cartoon. In my mind.
Rude.
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VonRabenherz Featured By Owner Jun 20, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm not rude. I merely don't see any reason to sugarcoat things.
I call religious people out on their bullshit. Nothing more.

And you can't date someone in your mind. The act of dating requires both participants to exist physically. Anything else is idle daydreaming.
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Sekhmet-Ra-Ptah Featured By Owner May 31, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
yes
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