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Mijumaru00 Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Omg, in my country (france) it's totally okay to do it before marriage, i don't see the problem, is that a religious thing ?
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CorruptTempest Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Because fucking after marriage, and ending up not liking the results, will most likely end up in a divorce anyway.
So this idea isn't as flawed as people make it out to be.
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buggerbug50 Featured By Owner Mar 28, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
Actually to be quite honest sex before marriage isn't the best choice, and I am willing to give reason to this.
1) You may contract STDs or even spread them along the way if you do end up having sex with a variety of partners, you never know if somebody is lying to you or not.
2) From my perspective, and yes, this is opinionated, I feel that you should lose your virginity to somebody that hasn't taken dozens of others' virginities away as it won't be quite so special.
3) Studies have shown that sex before marriage has caused more stress to the couple.
4) You could get somebody pregnant or even be pregnant, depending on the gender, obviously.
5) You won't be quite so emotional about the whole thing if you're caught in the act and you are married (provided you are with your spouse in this event...and not cheating, however you're most likely to be very embarassed, and the people who walked in on you will be incredibly disturbed)

And just to clear things up: this is where laws don't prevent your marriage. I know that gay couples can't get married everywhere, and they can't get pregnant, however I can't defend them on the STDs.

Murh. Well, that was fun to type.
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VikingPoneSwordsgirl Featured By Owner Edited 8 hours ago  Hobbyist Writer
When you have sex the first time you don't have to have sexual intercourse, just do other sexual things, which gives you almost no chance of conceiving as long as sperm isn't like...flying out onto the vagina or the guy ejaculates on it. I am tokophobic, I take birth control and do sexually explorative stuff with my partner, and that is good enough for me until he gets a vasectomy. I am probably going to be overly efficient at avoiding pregnancy actually because of my fear. I actually think humans developed acts like oral sex and mutual masturbation as ways to avoid
pregnancy and still get the same sexual reaction because it works good for so many humans across the board.

And you know what? I think oral and touching are actually better ways of pregnancy prevention...maybe not STDs, but pregnancy prevention then having an obviously sexually and physically attractive partner next to you whom you really wanna touch but you cant. Its like holding a food someone is craving up at their face and expecting them not to drool. Sorry but in a lot of cases, abstinence is not really much of a fix. Sex is very powerful drive for mammalian apes. We even share tons of genes with a species of monkey, the Bonobo, who has sex for every reason under the sun, like wanting to settle arguments, wanting to establish a closer relationship...whatever. Maybe humans attach more meaning to sex, but I still see echoes of the oversexed Bonobo in us Homo Sapiens.

With STDs I just think that sex is overwhelming drive and a lot of people are not going to wait, even if you believe they should. The thing which should be emphasised as well as getting married is getting tested and using protection if you don't know someone's status, although it is a good idea to know the status. The opinion that people should get married first isn't wrong, but it is unrealistic as a requisite to impose on everyone. Some have extremely high sex drives and actually battle to control themselves, male and female, straight and gay. And ignoring a sex drive tends to wire it up even more actually, which would lead to MORE pregnancy and STDs eventually. So what I would say is that both abstinence and prevention whilst still having sex both need to be discussed. They are both valid options I guess but they may suit other people to different standards.
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SharpPointyThings Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2014  Student General Artist
Most of these can be prevented by WEARING A CONDOM!
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buggerbug50 Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
Lmao condoms break and things can still be spread.
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SharpPointyThings Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2014  Student General Artist
Yes, but condoms greatly reduce the risk.
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buggerbug50 Featured By Owner Jun 15, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
Maybe so but there's still that chance
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CorruptTempest Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Or you can just not be lazy and have your partner go to a hospital and get tested for disease. Also since when did marriage prevent STDs? Lol
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buggerbug50 Featured By Owner Oct 6, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
Never said marriage did prevent them, but yes, you should get tested as well as your partner. However statistically speaking you get more sex and less stress if you do manage to get preggers after marriage.
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Peach-Powder Featured By Owner Jan 24, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
have lots of sex before marriage, then you will be a sex god to the one you love <3
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Mindless-Fangirl Featured By Owner Mar 29, 2015  Student General Artist
At one point, can't you get sick of sex?
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Jade-Link Featured By Owner Apr 6, 2014  Student Photographer
Haha yes <3
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Laraaqua0 Featured By Owner Jan 21, 2014
So... You're forcing me to have sex before marriage? -_-
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Haters-Gonna-Hate-Me Featured By Owner Jan 21, 2014  Student Writer
Yes.  I'm holding a gun to your head and telling you to have sex before marriage.
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Laraaqua0 Featured By Owner Jan 21, 2014
Uh... Sorry, I think I haven't understood the meaning of this stamp. Forget this comment.
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LightningDraco Featured By Owner Nov 26, 2013
WTF?!

That's wrong. Seriously.
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Mijumaru00 Featured By Owner Jan 7, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
How ?
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LightningDraco Featured By Owner Jan 7, 2015
haters-gonna-hate-me.deviantar… Comment from buggerbug50 is pure truth.
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ZuriMotgomery Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
How?
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LightningDraco Featured By Owner Jan 7, 2015
haters-gonna-hate-me.deviantar… the comment from buggerbug50
Old comment's old, but I usually don't care. :shrug:
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LightningDraco Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2013
Wow, you're so stupid that don't know how?
Pathetic.
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ZuriMotgomery Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Great answer. I applaud you. So fucking smart. I could learn from you.
No. Good job avoiding the question cause you can't fucking answer it. 
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LightningDraco Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2013
Because I don't need to!
Goodbye!
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ZuriMotgomery Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Never said you did. Congrats on looking stupid. 
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LightningDraco Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2013
You're stupid too.
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ZuriMotgomery Featured By Owner Dec 25, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
How? :D
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kawaiixcheezit Featured By Owner Oct 29, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
EXACTLY!
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BeautifullyDarkened Featured By Owner Oct 15, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
wait wait wait...how'd you know any better? 
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JackDenim17 Featured By Owner Jun 4, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
While I'm for sex before marriage, I'm against choosing your partner based on sex.
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violetense Featured By Owner Dec 7, 2012  Student Writer
When I was little, my parents were very careful not to impose their opinions on me about sex before marriage. It wasn't something that was even on my radar. When I was 12, I made the conscious decision to try to be abstinent, because I didn't know myself well enough to be intimate with someone else.

I'm 16 now and I don't know. I don't think there's anything wrong or sinful with having premarital sex. I just don't know if it's something that I personally am ready for. Scratch that, I know that I'm not ready for it. I've never met someone with whom I would feel comfortable experimenting sexually, much less going all the way. I guess I'll just see where my life goes and let it happen when I'm ready.
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Psychodragoncat Featured By Owner Oct 25, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
And who will you have to compare that "shitty partner" to? That's my thing on it. I'm not going to make babies or lose my virginity to someone that I absolutely despise later on down the road. (I understand that marriage has that same risk, but marriage is a little more permanent)

I have a lot of people say "What if hes bad in bed?" Well, because I've never had sex, I wouldn't know. So I guess I'll be bad in bed to. And what's great is that we will learn together. :3
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juanito316ss Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I took some time to get it but at least I didn't need an explaination

The joke is that, if you don't, you'll only know your partner is shitty in bed after you're already married xD
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fireandwaterqueen Featured By Owner Aug 29, 2012  Student General Artist
this is funny and true :iconfuckyeaplz:
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Eve-Francesca Featured By Owner Aug 23, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
Agreed completely! =D Props to you for making this stamp. =D
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wetpaint Featured By Owner Aug 14, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Getting married before having sex with your spouse is like buying a pair of shoes before trying them on. You'll be stuck with them because it's too much of a hassle to return them.
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TheIcyGlaceon Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2013  Student Writer
Dude, okay this stamp and you sound really dumb right now. No one is born AWESOME at sex. Sex is something you learn. And forgive me for being the type of person who'd rather practice sex with someone I'm married and IN LOVE with, rather than some sleazy dude I met on the street, which I'm guessing is probably how you had your first time. So, I just proved your point to be total BS.
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wetpaint Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Huh? Your fatuous opinion aside, did you mean to make this a reply to my comment made over a year ago or to this stamp in general? Either way, you have shown yourself to be incapable of beginner message board use. Please make sure you reply to the correct person or please realize that replying to things written over a year ago is a waste of your time and mine. Thank you and God bless.
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TheIcyGlaceon Featured By Owner Sep 17, 2013  Student Writer
Man, screw you and your pathetic opinion. As I said before, sex is something you learn, not something you're born with, you nitwit.
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MantaTheMisukitty Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Hey, don't get mad over a couple of jokes :lol:

And of course no one's perfect at sex, until they learn it. That's the point. You can wait til marriage all you want, but don't be rude to people who are just kidding around.
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TheIcyGlaceon Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2013  Student Writer
No, I choose to insult those who open their legs for everyone instead of waiting for the right person. Whoring your self around before marriage is the WRONG THING TO DO! And you should no better, young lady!
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MantaTheMisukitty Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
There's no need to insult people who do that. They aren't hurting anybody. And sex is no one's business but the people who are involved.

I still wonder why sex before/without marriage is wrong though, marriage is just a man-made thing.
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TheIcyGlaceon Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2013  Student Writer
No it's not. Marriage was something made by God. And honestly, if you look at the people who are having sex, they are all stupid numbskulls, I swear! And it's true, I have proof. I've talked with many people who do that stuff, and they are either :A. Losers with no self respect or B. Complete numbskulls. So yes, I have a right to insult them.
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MantaTheMisukitty Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I, and many others don't share your beliefs of marriages origin.

You can't base your hate on your personal experience with the people. You have to know every single one of a group of people to say that. Besides, insulting someone just because they have sex is immature and shallow. Apparently those people annoy you, because having sex before marriage is a sin. But you know, you have sinned too. everybody has. Sex before marriage isn't the only/worst one of them.

I have also talked to people, who've had sex. They were awesome, open-minded and friendly. They were beautiful, cheerful and artistic. You don't have a reason to be mean to people, who haven't hurt anybody. Their sex life shouldn't matter to you.
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TheIcyGlaceon Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2013  Student Writer
Haha, nope!
Okay, since you choose to be Mr. Sunshine and happy time, I'm going to put you straight about how dumb non virgins.
Example A: Online, I was talking with this stupid 15 year old. He was going on about how he was a non virgin and how girls were obsessed with his male genitals. And I said, "How many girls have you slept with?" and he said 9! 
I asked "Oh, when was your first time" and his reply was "It was in 5th grade, but it was with the girl who is the love of my life, Sarah" Of course, I asked 'Well, if you loved Sarah so much, then what was the purpose of sleeping with 9 OTHER GIRLS?!!?!"
Of course, his dumb answer was "Oh, I couldn't help it. They got on top of me and begged, and I had to give them what they wanted."That was the time I slapped myself in the face really hard, and cursed very loudly. And he was like "Even though I'm only 15,
I know I want to raise a family with Sarah"-Dude, you're f*cking 15, how the f*ck do you know if you are truly in love with this girl or not?!
Example B: There's this girl at my school named Melissa. She's sort of an acquaintance, but of course, she's a non virgin. And one day, she came up to our group and said "Omg, you guys, I'm going to totally tell you all about what sex is like!" I of course asked a few things, and SHE could barely even tell me the answer to them! she didn't even so much as know what parts of her own va*ina were called, she said "Oh, there's like this, clit thingy and that's all I know"
So, these were only 2 examples of people who are non virgins who are complete morons. i could name plenty more, but I think you have the picture now. People who have sex early are most likely people who don't even believe in love. Because they don't believe in marrying each other. And isn't that one of the greatest things someone can do to show that they love them? Hold our a ring and propose to them? Yet with nonvirgins, all they care about is the sex in a relationship. Not the actual love part.
 
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peacefulinvasion Featured By Owner Jul 24, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
Actually I've been taught that waiting till marriage is not all it is cracked up to be. I've chosen to have sex when I feel that the time is right to do so. It might be before Marriage it might end up ultimately being after marriage, Idk when life will tell me. All I know is when the time comes I will have sex weather I'm married or not.

But I still will choose to wait until I'm on Birth Control.
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Ask-War Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2012  Professional Artist
Good for you.
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peacefulinvasion Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
:shrug: hey sex before marriage is pointless your going to enjoy it nomater what.
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Ask-War Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2012  Professional Artist
Indeed. The concept of sex feeling better after marriage is ludicrous. At best the feeling of love is there, and love exists without marriage. Even in terms of morality, it's subjective. I find it moral to try out a product before you buy it, so to speak.
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peacefulinvasion Featured By Owner Jul 25, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
personally i think its immoral to tell someone they must go against something thats perfectly natural and tell them they are wrong to make a choice that does not hurt anyone else.

I'd say have sex when the time is right. If your married then you waited till after marraige but if your not married thats fine too. Just wait till you feel the time is right.
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